Relationship between a teacher and a student

A teacher spend a night with one of her students in his bed.

Bernadette Smith,35 years old, spent a night in a student's bed, Gary Ralston 17 years old, wearing only her jeans and her bra

She thought she became crazy, because she was obsessed with the young boy. That obsession cost the married woman her job and reputation.

Gary said that Smith was his favourite teacher. He said: "I was thinking I was quite lucky. A lot of the boys fancied her. I couldn't believe she was with me."

The mother of three was placed under supervision order. They hadn't sexual relation, that saved her from a jail sentence.

"When I started year six, Bernadette was no longer my teacher, but we'd pass each other in the corridor, say hello and smile." "I walked in and as soon as I sat down she said, "Ever since we've been back at school and I've seen you around, I've been realising I have feelings for you", he said.

They drove to a park in Falkirk, Scotland, and they had a walk, but, when they come back to the car, Smith kissed him passionately.

Gary said that he was worried for his teacher's job and family but she said he didn't have to be worried about it.

The father of the young boy was informed but the grandmother decided to call Bannockburn High School and Smith was immediately suspended.

Gary said: ‘We got ready for bed and I felt nervous. I got into bed with my boxers on. She took off her top, but kept her bra and jeans on, and slid in beside me. We cuddled and talked – nothing else happened.’

His father Richard Ralston, 42, said: ‘I wasn't pleased about what happened, but you’re an adult at 16 in Scotland so I didn't want to interfere too much. I want Gary to make decisions and learn from any mistakes.’

Prosecutor said that Smith said that she loved the boy and they both wanted to be together. She admitted kissing Gary and staying the night with him.

She was placed under a supervision for two years and will remain on the sex offenders' register also for two years. She was suspended by the General Teaching Council for Scotland and separated from her husband.

I think relations between teachers and students have a limit. Even if they hadn't sexual relations they passed this limit. The boy is considered an adult so that's good for the teacher, she doesn't have to go to the prison. However, I think authorities made good decisions.

Be in a fandom

If you've read my blog or if you know me, you also know that I'm a "Directioner". Be a "Directioner" is to be a member of the fandom, of the 1D family (One Direction).

Being in this fandom is probably one of the best thing ever, because people who are in this fandom are, like me, they love the same group and they can undersatnd me better than people from school or better than my own family. Even if we don't know each other. If I have any problem I just have to connect  on twitter and I know that people will help me. I don't know how explain it, it's like if we always feel the same feelings, those feelings that  the other people don't understand.

I started to be part of this fandom, more or less, two years ago. When I was thirteen One Direction made their first song, "Whats makes you beautiful". I loved it, I spent all summer listening to it. One year after they made a new song "Live while we're young". This was the moment when I started to search for information about them and I literrally fell in love. I started to follow them on twitter. The same year, in November, they made "Little things" that was THE SONG. I became like, addicted to them. And now, I'm here. I really don't know how to explain why I love them so much, because it's a different and the best feeling and people don't know and understand this feeling.

With their songs they make me happy, with their videos they make me laugh. I know that it's practically impossible to meet them and they don't know about me but I know that, even if they aren't here with me, they and their songs will always be here for me and I will always be here to support them. With them and all the 1D family I will never be alone.

The funniest friend

Her name is Esther. She's sixteen, like me, and she's Spanish. She hasn't a job because she's a student, and we're in the same high school.

She is beautiful and she is very friendly.

She's taller than me, more or less ten centimetres, and she's not fat. She has straight brown hair and light green eyes, she don't wear glasses but she has to wear contact lenses. She has thin lips and she wears braces.

She's very cheerful, easy-going and, above all, crazy. She's very emotional, I always can see if she's in a good or in a bad mood. She's also very sympathetic and honest. She has a great sense of humour.

She's a really good friend, I can talk about everything with her. We always have good moments and, above all, crazy moments. I would be lost without her.

The best age

If I could return to any age it would be five years old again.

Life at five years old was so easy, we just had good moments at school with our friends. We had no homework, we could meet with friends or just watch TV or play all the afternoon. We were not stressed, like now, with exams. The only problems we had were, who won the game or if the doll was mine or yours. We had no responsabilities, we were like, free.

I would be five years old again because it was my last year in France and I enjoyed it. I was a Little sad because I left my friends but I also made new friends even if it was difficult.